SF - I see what you mean - and as it happens, I'm overly open IRL too. But ShaniFaye, if I knew you outside, and we were having an argument, or I haven't told you yet about that time I was abused or something, I would hesitate only because as friends on the outside, in some ways I would feel bad that I felt comfortable sharing with TFP but not with you, or if I wanted to vent about our argument, but you're right here too. That's like talking and pretending someone else isn't there. I think *that's* the part I will want to avoid (haven't been posting long enough to run into real life issues).
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