Your signature seems to be consistent with your approach. You want to make her be in the mood? "Get" her in the mood? Good luck. Desperation and force are the not conducive to sex.
Stop needing it so much, is my advice. You stop needing it, and you'll find it coming to you.
You should also talk with her about your confusion. But don't expect anything like a logical explanation from her. Emotions aren't logical, women's emotions especially.
Edit: I just noticed the thread title. Okay, I'm not a lady. But I did just have a breakthrough in this in my marriage, so I feel qualified to speak about it.
Last edited by ratbastid; 04-13-2005 at 05:46 AM..
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