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Seeker · 04-13-2005, 04:33 AM

And here my heart was sinking! I believe james t kirk brings in some very important points.

11 years, a lot can happen in that time and it's easy to get caught up. Something happens and it can bring about 'feelings' and 'emotions' that cause confusion which can ultimately lead to 'Accidents'.

You are left with three options - to work through it if there is enough reciprical value in the relationship;
to explore the reasons it has occurred, and decide mutually if there is anything left to repair;
or, to leave with a distrust and negative perspective/generalisation about relationships and/or the opposite sex or partner.

I don't encourage cheating, though I don't believe all cheating is intentional. I can't generalise everyones situations to that extent.

04-13-2005, 04:33 AM	#54 (permalink)
Seeker Getting Clearer Location: with spirit	And here my heart was sinking! I believe james t kirk brings in some very important points. 11 years, a lot can happen in that time and it's easy to get caught up. Something happens and it can bring about 'feelings' and 'emotions' that cause confusion which can ultimately lead to 'Accidents'. You are left with three options - to work through it if there is enough reciprical value in the relationship; to explore the reasons it has occurred, and decide mutually if there is anything left to repair; or, to leave with a distrust and negative perspective/generalisation about relationships and/or the opposite sex or partner. I don't encourage cheating, though I don't believe all cheating is intentional. I can't generalise everyones situations to that extent. __________________ *To those who wander but who are not lost...* ~ Knowledge is not something you acquire, it is something you open yourself to.