Starting the birth control probably was a big factor in the weight gain i know when i statred birth control i did gain about 10-15 lbs. But as someone else has already said you start exercising and dieting FIRST then ask her if she would like to join you that way she does not think that you are just trying to say "hey you need to be on a diet and you need to exercise" 
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