First, be sure about that very last bit...that you would still love her at 200lbs, because it could happen and if you're gonna bail on her, do it now before you form more emotional attachments.
That being said, you can do/say a couple of things.
Mainly, that if she wants to lose weight, that you support her and will help her AS asked, that you will exercise/walk/whatever with her, but that in the end, your love for her won't change with the addition or subtraction of a few pounds.
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