I honestly have no idea... I was skeptical when she told me about it though I believe it doesnt increase blood flow or anything like that, just produces the same effect. Its not so much a "need it" thing as its a "trying new things" deal. We are very experimental..though i think she mainly wants longer sex (though I'm a bit perturbed because we usually spend around 2-3 hours from foreplay through orgasm)... I just don't really know how to respond. I suppose the best solution is to just ask what she feels is lacking (though, knowing her its probably just a "want to see what happens" thing)...either way I dont know how to ease her off the idea...
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