Welcome Laura! I found this place great to 'get lost' in. There are so many topics, so many opinions and when you do start to participate you get a sense of self
. From what is sounds the TFP is just what the doctor ordered! Jump in and have some fun, you will be amazed and probably a bit more understanding when your SO spends so much time in his boards. Who knows, you may both start discussing issues you find on your boards and that will help with communication between you two!
I myself am starting to check out the journels... if you don't want to share on a up front forum topic then this sounds like just the sort of thing you need when all you want to do is rant or vent.
All this aside, this is a wonderful place with so much going on and great people, enjoy!!