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Old 04-10-2005, 01:35 PM   #53 (permalink)
james t kirk
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Lots of people cheat.

Most in fact. (Myself included, women I have been with also.)

It doesn't phase me anymore.

Plus, there are different kinds of cheating. There is the "just sex" kind of cheating (most men subscribe to this kind) and there is the "emotional cheating" (which irionically, always involves sex too) (Most women subscribe to this kind of cheating.) Which is why I think when a woman cheats it's worse than when a man cheats.

Frankly, the emotional sex is far worse than the quick piece of ass kind.

This is why in all marriage break ups, it's something like 70% of the time, it's the woman leaving the man. Men just need to be content and they are good to go in a relationship. If he needs a different pair of hips for a little variety, that is easy to come by, but generally, a man will never leave his wife for a piece of ass ever. Women however are much more complicated. They fuck around not just to have a different cock, but also the whole emotional thing. Then they get fucked up when they discover that Mr. New Cock isn't really any different than Mr. Old Cock, in fact, he's probably worse. It's just for the first time in years they felt they were "in love". Jokes on them though usually.

My advice:

Either leave, or re-invent your relationship so that you are both free to have other sex partners as long as you both understand that it's just to be about sex. (Believe it or not it can work and can be damn kinky too.)

My 2 cents

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