It's quite simple. When a two bi girls hook up, it's usually about sex. Not looking for a relationship. Hi, screw, bye.
I bet if an attractive (to her) guy was to approach the same girl who did what you described, and expressed the want for fuck buddies she'd go for it.
But that's not the norm for guys, we're trained to do the relationship thing first. Rightly so for most women, most women wouldn't go for the forward fuck buddy approach. But the more sexually open girls, bi girls for example, would go for it.
Another dynamic to consider is that I think women trust eachother more. With a guy a girl jumps in to bed with on the first date, she doesn't know much about him. He might be a pyscho who will rape her if she says stop or whatever.
With a girl, there is not a sense of overpowerment or a reason to get to know her as much first. Less bad things are prone to happen.
My couple o shillings.
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