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Old 04-10-2005, 07:25 AM   #29 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by Gilda


I think sexuality isn't a neat binary, or in this case, trinary segregation system. It's a continuum, and I'm on the border between bi and gay. I think women seem to be distributed a bit more flatly along the continuum than men, which is to say that men tend to be more likely to identify as exclusively straight or exclusively gay, with a small number in the middle and the nebulous areas inbetween. Women tend to have smaller clusters at the ends, and many more who are somewhere in the middle. Also, women's sexuality seems to be more fluid, more susceptible to change.
This statement seems to ring very true from my experience......not that I have the insight needed to form a qualified opinion here. Harpie seems to develop emotional bonding relatively easily with females, and has no interest in males (other than myself ,thank the Gods). The sexual aspect of these bonds is somewhat irrelevant it would seem , as it is more of a friendship that has possibilities, rather than a permanent companion depended on for life lessons.
On a less serious note, after reading this thread, One can only hope that the beautiful women posting to this thread remain interested in at least some men.....as my ears would bleed at the collective weeping of us all....should it be different.
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