Society dictates from an early age that women and men are inherently different, that there is a power element that goes into interactions between men and woman and this is drilled into our minds, and while i don't nessasarily agree with this, i still recognize that i've been conditioned to think this way.
I know i personally view men very differently than i do women in almost all matters, which also applys to sexual matters.
And it's true, I've found that with women, i'm much more open and receptive, there is a sense of trust that builds much faster than with men, at least for me, there are no games that either side is playing and there seems to be alot more honesty .. . this sense of freedom does lend itself to sexual matters, as i'm much more likely to have sex with someone who i can be completely open with and who i feel is being genuine.
Do men only seek to Use woman?
Are woman more genuine than men?
Can you trust woman more than men?
you tell me, i haven't figured those answers out yet.
but the bottom line is:
yes, i'm a million times more likely to jump into bed with a woman than i am with a man and i'm not really sure why.
But i will have to disagree, i certainly do not expect men to make the first move in all situations and neither do most of the girls i know . . .
I'm used to making the first move with both men and woman, It seems archaic to have men always make the first move, plus it's more fun to give chase.
Sweetpea