Originally Posted by Squishor

Ah hah. Herein lies the root of your problem. You need increased exposure and I don't mean the trenchcoat kind. What are your interests? I met a lot of people in community college and they weren't all kids. Maybe Adult Education classes? Does your city offer any kind of Parks and Recreation activities, that type of thing? Join a club? How about cruising the local grocery store looking eligible? (Don't laugh at that one - I have met some very nice men at the store.)