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Alright, here's the deal. This is my opinion of what went wrong, and I will guarantee it within 95% certainty.
So, what happened? His girlfriend happened.
He might have been annoyed at you not spending time with him and "blowing him off", but here's the icing on the cake.
You mentioned that his girlfriend is very Christian oriented, right? What do you think was going through her mind when she saw those porn banners on entensity.net? I can guarantee you she probably walked off thinking about what a sick, dirty person you are for even opening such filth. She probably thought that you were a bad influence on her boyfriend, and didn't want him hanging around you anymore. I will also guarantee you, that she was bitching about you to him. Eventually, she wore him down to the point where he began to think that what you were doing was sick and unhealthy, when in actuality, those opinions were that of his girlfriend's.
I could see the following type of dialogue, taking place, knowing how caddy some women can be: "I don't want you hanging around with XXXX anymore, I can't believe he was that rude! Ugh, I can't believe you're even friends with him!"
Generic dialogue, I've heard it all before, however. Women are, in my opinion, the BIGGEST influence on your relationship with your friends.
My diagnosis: You, my friend, are not the one that's pussy-whipped, it is quite the contrary. Your friend's feelings about you were manipulated by his own girlfriend, and resulted in him ignoring you, and the loss of your friendship. Your friend, is the one that is pussy-whipped.
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