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Originally Posted by Minorci
I know i couldn't live with myself if i knew a friend had a problem, and commited suicide, and i didn't do anything about it.
One of my best friends killed himself last november, no one knew anything was wrong at the time, but when thought about we noticed a few signs that he was unhappy.
It's good that she has at least mentioned that she has a problem to you, it may only be words now, but that can quickly change.
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I've had to many friends take that way out. It sucks. Hard. For my friends, and the one that know me real world here can back me, I will move heaven and earth to help. There is nothing I will not do to help a friend. That being said, I still think the best thing here is to walk away. It seems to me from what I've read, she wants things over. Done. Talk to the family, make that last attempt to help, but after that, all he can really do is let her go her own way. With luck she'll understand that he wants to help, and won the road let him, but until she desides to fix herself, there is nothing to do but stand to the side, much as that may suck to.