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Originally Posted by tres
Well.. It might not seem like a problem to most of you, and in the past it was never any concern with my ex's, but now that my SO finally has her sex drive back, we are having sex more often, and now we have another problem.
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Anyone else have this? Whaddya think? Solutions?
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Interesting. You're right that this is slightly less the average, but it is far from rare. I can't give you a specific statistic, but if I had to guess I'd say that 1 of 6 or 7 women orgasm much faster than men. I happened to marry one.
My beautiful, talented, perfect, etc. wife lasted about 3 minutes or so on our wedding night. Imagine my surprise. I put my tux back on and went back to my house to get lubrications of sorts. The warming lubes helped us a bit. The second time she lasted much longer, but it had been only 45 minutes since we had finished. Her second came after maybe 15 or 20 minutes of going, followed by me at around 34 (if memory serves me correctly). I found out later that a lot of it simply was a combination of her being really excited, and her not being accustomed to me. After a few months (straight
), she was able to enjoy 45 minutes average per session. Now, she and I can go almost indefinatally, with the assistance of some lube.
We recently tried something called the
slightest touch machine. Small box about the size of a deck of cards and attaches to the ankle by electrodes. Sounds kinky, no? Whell it sends small electrical signals along the nerves up to that special area. Aparently, the electirical signal mimics the electrical signals the body uses to communicate sexual arousal to a woman's pelvic region. I thought it was hogwash, but I'm usualyl up for anything. We bought it, my wife drank this electrolite water from the health food store (it has something to do with the transfering of the pulsing throught the body) and we strapped them on. Nothing happened. Then she jumped my bones and she stayed aroused for so long she had to go get some water. I don't remember sleeping that night. I finished something like 3 times, which is unheard of as far as my usual experience.
If you want to try and desensitize her (which is something you might regret later, but what the heck), you might try a powerful sex tool. Vibrators can get pretty rough. One of my ex girlfirends had a sybian and swore on it (as opposed to by it...pun...nevermind). That thing sounded like a 120 hp electric mower, but it got the job done a lot.
I think that your best bet would be lubrication. Sex for only 3 minutes sucks.