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Originally Posted by Charlatan
My wife gets off very quickly as well... she's very much a wham bam thank you sir type (this has its ups and downs).
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I'm super-orgasmic, so after a while I a) get really sensitive, b) lose my lubrication, and c) get bored. My current lover's ex liked him to go for HOURS and I had to break his zen master training by informing him I really didn't need more than say...15 minutes of thrusting at a time, and even that might be pushing it.
There have, however, been times where I was clearly done and he was not...but I have never left him in the lurch. Trust me, I was tempted...but I can't say no to his big brown eyes. And now I have the perfect solution--if he's taking too long I just suck him off. In no time at all he's as happy as I am...in fact, maybe happier, as he loves the oral.
I think this is one of those things, tres, where communication is key. You guys need to talk this out OUTSIDE the bedroom and brainstorm solutions for your problem. That's what we did, and it's worked for us--I know now that sometimes I'm going to have to put up with a few extra minutes of stimulation and/or switch it up a bit. Of course I've also learned techniques that make him come faster.
Kegel exercises, my friends, can prove to be the ultimate tool in trying to get a guy off quickly.