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Dude - it sucks. Women seem to have a tendency to be 'done with' your relationship without telling you and this seems to be the case here. Like a monkey in a tree, it seems that your woman wasn't about to let go of something until she had a hand on another.
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This is possibly one of the greatest quotes ever.
Fact is, she cheated, she's probably done it before, and she'll likely do it again.
I think you'd be surprised by her answer if you started yelling, calling her a whore, pissing her off, and THEN ask her how many guys she's fucked behind your back.
That's just kinda what women do, dude. And it's funny because, supposedly, men are the worst cheaters. Not a chance. Some men won't stop fucking for anything, and cheat as a habit and love it.
As you've seen by the responses on this board - damn near all women cheat. And it's always the same fucking story. Every guy has the same story to tell you.
Going "on break" with her was, sorry to say, a pathetic and a half-assed approach to a serious situation. Either give the fuck up, know that she's fucked some dudes before and will again, drop any previously held self image of dignity and self-respect, be pathetic, and stay with her. Tell her how much you love her, be her bitch, etc. Then be REALLY fucked up when she does it again. Funny thing about that, is you get to watch her laugh (at you maybe, but definitely afterward with her friends - or one of the guys she's been fucking) when you find out and flip. She's just sorta new to being caught right now.
OR you drop her like a sack of shit. Keep your dignity etc, and if the relationship means something to her, she'll, as has been said, make all the right moves and get back with you.
But "going on break" is about the worst thing you can do. Right now she's out fucking that same dude she cheated with. And probably some other guys. While you're sitting at home crying like a bitch and thinking she is too. Well dude she isn't.
Of course, you could get back together with her and hope that it really WAS the first time and she really DID regret it. Maybe she really WON'T do it again.
That really is the case sometimes. But, as you've seen by all of the posts here, it's just not the case very often at all. Most women are ditchpigs who plot and scheme their way into cock behind their deceived boyfriend's back. Get used to it, don't get too down about it, just give people their one chance.