Originally Posted by Scabs the Clown

I think that overall she has just lost something off her sex drive. Trying to talk to her about it hasn't gotten me too far because as I said in the other thread, she just gets defensive and talks about me "wanting it every night" and that she can't/won't do that. Of course that's not what I'm talking about. I don't know, maybe it's me. I've gained 20 pounds since we have been married (now 6'1", 203#) but I don't think I'm that repulsive yet.