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Old 04-06-2005, 12:38 PM   #40 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by Scabs the Clown
My wife initiates sex 2-3 times a year. The problem with that is I start to wonder if she really wants it when I try and start something. I'm always thinking should I or shouldn't I and that distraction is often enough to mess things up. When we do have sex she seems interested. When I ask her why she doesn't start anything she just says she is always too tired. It gets frustrating.
Just like I said in the other thread, there must be something else going on, because time, or being tired (all the time) are not a valid long term excuse IMO. If some nights she's too tired...ok.. But def not as a long term excuse. Have you talked to her? Did she lose her drive? Does she think that he has to be a respectful mom and sex is on the line of disrespectful? I know some women that refuse to wear bikinis after they have children even when their body is still smokin hot, because "it's not motherly"
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