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Well.. It might not seem like a problem to most of you, and in the past it was never any concern with my ex's, but now that my SO finally has her sex drive back, we are having sex more often, and now we have another problem.

It takes her about oh... 3 min to cum during intercourse.. I always make sure she is taken care of before I finish. For me, I don't like it to end so quickly, and I'm pretty good about being able to hold back. When she cums, she gets so sensitive that we have to take a break or stop. Then, she's really not interested in intercourse, although she very much wants me to cum, and is completely dissatisfied if I don’t. I know that after she cums, she's not so "into it" any more, and that makes me want to stop because it gets dry and I know it hurts her. Since I know how she feels, now I'm no longer interested and the mood it completely lost. Then she proceeds to get upset because she thinks that she isn’t good enough for me, meanwhile she is by far the hottest girl I have ever been with, and I'm constantly telling her how much she turns me on. I dunno what I can do about cumming quicker, because when I try it’s forced and then that makes it even worse and takes longer.

Anyone else have this? Whaddya think? Solutions?

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