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Sounds like son is in control when in comes to bedtime and not mom. This gives him an upper hand in your relationship.
Mom can't make son sleep; but she can inforce a bed-time. Walking him to bed and kissing him goodnight is a good bonding ritual. Beyond that, it just feels weird. If son can't or doesn't want to sleep, let him read (no T.V.!) but mom shouldn't be staying with him.
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