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OK hardknock - I'm not divorced. I've had thoughts of it over my 14 years of marriage. At about 2-3 years, again at about 9-10 years and again recently. Recently it has been due to a lack of sex. I know that may sound shallow but sex and intamacy are important. If I were to leave initiation up to my wife I would get laid every time I hired a hooker. To date I haven't. I recently decided to stop initating sex; I went 1 1/2 months before I broke down and initiated. I've talked to her about it and she seems to think our sex life is fine. She is inflexible in her sexual activities. She willnot touch my spincter, have anal sex, sleep naked, have a threesome, she does not like to give blowjobs (but will occasionally when I go down on her and stick it in her face). She seems to have absolutely no lust or desire. Her mind never joins mine in the gutter.
So there you have it. This is why I am curious as to why some couples divoce.
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