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Try not to tell your side of the story, say what actually happened.
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The Friday night before my girlfriend's birthday I'm sitting there wrapping presents and out of the blue he asks "You want to go eat the world's largest tenderloin tomorrow?"..."Uhhh, I can't it's ____'s birthday." He hasn't talked to me since. Maybe he had set a date or something, or maybe we even make plans a long time before hand. But reminding me the night before my girlfriend's birthday just isn't going to work out.
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Sorry, but that paragraph and putting your career goals in jeapardy just came right out of nowhere for me. "You're ignoring me, so let's have a fist fight"?
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Teaching is a very sensitive profession to get into. If it came down to me having a police record saying I beat the crap out of my roomate it could cost me a job. It's not only about the ignoring me. It is about treating me like crap and treating me like a stranger in my own room, having no respect for my needs as a student and a human (studying, sleeping), posting crap in his online journal simply so everyone can read it and comment on how right he is regardless of the truth, and just for being himself, which if you knew him would make you want to punch him in the face anyway. This has been a lot longer than 2 months in coming. He's pulled crap similar to this a couple other times during the year but we managed to work it out. My girlfriend won't even come over anymore because of the huge disrespect he shows to me and her when we are in the room. To be honest, living in a 10x12 concrete dorm with someone who never leaves the room (he's tied to his computer literally all day when he's not in class) would make you want to kill a lot more people than just your roomate.