Bless you Maleficent!
Tough love doesn't bother me at all, just needed someone that wasn't afraid to tell me.
Everything might be catching up with me lately and seems to be getting worse. That's by my present view of it though.
The father lives in New York while I'm in Virginia. The only time he spends with her are on Christmas for a couple of days and sometimes Thanksgiving. Most of the time is during the summer when she goes to stay with him for 2 to 4 weeks. But he works the whole time and doesn't get home til late so the half sister watches her.
Hopefully I'll get a nice break this summer and can take some time to get back on track.
Thanks for the advice! I knew this was a great place to find out some answers or at least get me back on track.
Suzz04