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Does your friend know you go to the site where his posts are placed?
Is it possible that he did this to point out to you what's going on?
Personally?
If I had to live with someone like that, I'd either ask for a transfer to another room or face up to it.
On an afternoon when you know he's got nothing to distract him, knock on his door, excuse your interruption and tell him that you're going out for take away.
You'll get his favourite unless he wants otherwise and that while you are away he needs to come up with the things that he wants to discuss with you in point form.
Then, when you get back, discuss the list and listen to what he says. Important: LISTEN ONLY.
Then, tell him you'll be back in 20 and make a list of reasons for what he thinks are problems or things you'll do to correct them.
It sounds like both of you have trouble communicating.
The point forms make it like a meeting and give it some structure. If it wanders onto another point, then flag him or yourself down and say that you'll get to it at 'point x'.
Give it structure and you might find out what it's all about.
But agree that when it's your or his time to listen, then you have to LISTEN.
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