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Originally Posted by Fourtyrulz
Yeah, just a casual greeting that should be reciprocated between two human beings.
One main problem is that this isn NOT the first time he's done this to any number of friends. We used to have a really tight group of friends in high school, then he just stopped talking or acknowledging Alex, then it was Ben, then it was Chapman and Ard (which he names in his xanga posts). When he says that he won't talk to you he means it, like he will not talk to you. Even when an RA came to tell me to turn down my music one night after quiet hours, he just opened the door and pointed to me like "He's the culprit."
I couldn't agree more, and I have probably changed more this last year than at any point in my life since I learned to crap in a toilet but he views change as his friends becoming worthless and "ignorant excuses for human beings."
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Thanks for the background. It sounds like you friend has some emotional problems. Especially if he's done this to a number of friends. Maybe he's scared of change or he had someone close to him really hurt him. I don't know. It's definately not a healthy thing that he doesn't talk or open up. It's also pretty sad that he see change as ignorant excuses for human beings. He is changing constantly and for him to ignore that could be dangerous. I would give it another shot or two and this time give more than a casual greeting. Don't be nice, just tell him you want to know what the fuck is going on. If that doesn't work then chalk it up to crapped out emotions and move on
