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Problem is, abstinence is only really expected of the female. The church turns a blind eye to men getting their rocks off before marriage. Abstinence is BS anyways, we are sexual creatures and sex should be a pleasurable part of everybody's life. Problem is, they (fundies) have made it into this demon-act of lust and sin which makes everybody overly curious and secretive of it.
As a female, I blame this abstinence-christian thing for my fear of sex in my youth. Not fear really, but more of "oh, I could NEVER." I regret not giving myself that opportunity to explore my sexuality before marriage.
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Maybe it was over when she chucked me out the Rover at full speed.
Maybe Maybe...
~a-Ha
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