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making a move
I'm a really shy guy when it comes to making moves on girls. I can talk to them fine and all but when it comes time to make a move I'm either too shy to do it or just too scared. Like today I went to see a movie with this girl I've been talking to and she seems to be diggin me. I wanted to put my arm around her during the movie but I got so goddamn nervous and then just chickened out and didnt do it. I was thinking about asking her if I could but then thought that would've been dumb. I just seem to psych myself out and get stressed out over this when the opportunity arises. Any tips on how to break this initial barrier? I've always been like this with girls. I just get really really shy when it comes to doing stuff like this because I don't know how they will react. I try to get it through my head that the worst thing that can happen is she says no, but I still chicken out. I know that if I had a few drinks in me that this wouldn't be a problem because I don't care what happens when I'm drunk. Some words of advice would be greatly appreciated. Thanks all.
-BigD
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