I've been there... the guy was too drunk to realize what the hell he was doing and -BAM!- I lost my anal virginity. It hurt pretty damned bad but the worst part was sitting through a four hour seminar the next day at work. I was squirming around because I was so uncomfortable.
Eventually the uncomfortable/pain feeling goes away but if there is some residual emotional uncomfortability still lingering, talk to your boyfriend about it. Tell him that the next time the two of you have sex, you need it to be a bit gentler. Have him go slow and take his time that way you won't be worrying that he will accidentally hit the wrong spot again.
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