For me, when I sign my marriage certificate, I want it to change something in my life. It's a big investment of each other to move in with someone, and as someone who has worked in a residental/housing field, I've seen how messy living situations can get when things go bad, and most often it's because things were not completely thought out before people decided to move in together.
I'm a pretty independent person, and I just really do not trust many people, and living with someone and being financially connected is a big step. I want to make sure I don't get hurt in the prcoess.
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Calling from deep in the heart, from where the eyes can't see and the ears can't hear, from where the mountain trails end and only love can go... ~~~ Three Rivers Hare Krishna
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