Well the first date has to be a combination of both crowded, so that your date doesn't feel like she (/he) is totally alone with you, but the place must also give you at least some privacy. I used to take my first dates over to Original Joe's in San Jose. This place has tons of history in San Jose and has a great friendly/classy environment. Unfortunatally, I talked to a health inspector who visited the place and I enver went back.
I took one date to a ball room dancing place after her roomate informed me she wanted to be a ballroom dancer when she was a little girl. She really, really, really liked it. Then she liked it again once before I went to work.
Try to find out what this person likes to do or is interested in, the go from there. The last thing you want is for your date to be uncomfortable because of her/his surroundings, in addition to the stress of a first date.
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