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Originally Posted by Ysb
We use the same computer, and I open the hotmail, and there it was the email from him... The second date was sure planned, but she says that the kissing and sex was not.... Reason: she met the guy on the beach (she went w some GIRL friends....), he gave her his phone #, she call to say hi... and thats where it started, no, she did not lie to me, but I belived she was at the college... She wants to stay with me, she regrets a lot, now....
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fuck that man.
First, this means one of two things. 1.) the first date she planned on kissing and sex. but according to her, she acted on impulse, so that is not possible. so......2.) if she cant control her impulse, not planning on kissing and sex doesnt matter. she was voluntarily putting herself in a position where she knows she cant control herself. therefore, she is pretty much planning on kissing and sex......cheating on you for the second time. IMO, you caught her cheating on you again before she could actually go through with it.
Additionally, just the fact that she was planning on seeing the same guy she regrets cheating on you with is FUCKED UP.
and one more thing. the fact that she was going to see the guy again means that she didnt regret it the first time. that means to me, that her saying the she regrets it means that she regrets getting caught.
lets say that you got really drunk at a bar and slept with some chick. if you really regretted it, would you go out and have lunch with her at any time in the future? NO.
i say rid yourself of her, and along with that the pain.