first off - sorry dude, that sucks and i know how you feel.
that hurt and betrayed feeling is VERY hard to get over. i was never able to do it, but pretended to, and that led to a couple more years of an unhappy marriage followed by another round of hurt and betrayl.
think long and hard about whether you will ever truly be able to trust her again because if you can't you'll be doing you both a diservice to try to continue the relationship.
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