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With what you said about it being an impulse.... I would leave her high and dry. If she can't control her impulses and she couldn't stop herself anytime in between, then she has a problem. I know you love her, and that it would hurt you to leave her. But you could be leaving yourself open for alot more hurt if you stay with her.
And if you still want to be with her, talk to her about it. Ask her why she felt she needed to do that. "because it was an impluse," is complete crap for an answer. If you had to try hard to get it out of her, then do so, make sure she feels the same pain you felt. Because to her, if you're not too upset about it, then she will think its an alright thing to do.
Anyways.... I feel for you, I had a girlfriend cheat on me too. It will be hard, and the decisions you make now, will affect your relationship with her later. Just figure out what you want, then move to what you want between the two of you.
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