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Hi Ysb,
You will have (no doubt) found how helpful people here are. These guys and gals rock! They have some VERY good advice and can THINK things out FOR YOU on this topic. I know, they've helped ME out a lot recently.
Dude - it sucks. Women seem to have a tendency to be 'done with' your relationship without telling you and this seems to be the case here. Like a monkey in a tree, it seems that your woman wasn't about to let go of something until she had a hand on another.
I know that you desperately want to repair things but you will forever hold this issue within yourself. Your best course of action is most likely to move on. Dude - it sucks even saying that (because that is what I am having to do) so believe me, I know that the idea hurts.
She did it on purpose. She knew what she was potentially getting into. She broke your trust. You will ask yourself: "how can somebody that loves you so much do such a mean thing?" and here is the bummer - there is NO answer to that question. The question is irrelevant. Time to heal your wounds and to rediscover friendships.
*hug*
I think you know deep down in your heart what is right - you just have to see that through all the confusion.
Cheers!
-James-
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