todd

Are you a man who can get sex elsewhere easily?
I ask because I am not a man like that, and I myself fell victim to a similar situation about a year ago, and ended up turning the girl down. I know hate myself for that (figuratively speaking).

The only differance is that with this same girl (a virgin as well), the situation is now reversed! I am horny as hell and about dieing over her, and she wants little to do with me. It was a girl I went out with a few years ago, untill she suddenly broke up with me after a vacation (I never talked to her about this, but I have a strong feeling she met somebody else during that vacation). Then one day she started droping a ton of sexual hints and pretty much begged me to take her virginity. I was completely single, but like you, wasn't feeling into her at all. I had a strange notion that I wanted to lose my virginity to somebody I loved. Today, about a year later, I'm kicking myself hard in the ass for that because I am now begging the same thing of her and she is acting the same way as I was back then. A taste of my own medicine I guess...

My point is, if you're feeling the same sex crave that she is and you are unable to get it elsewhere, I highly suggest you do it. To avoid the risk of any clingyness, just make sure she understands very clearly that you do not want a relationship afterwards - she'll probably say OK because she is so horny, and then all you have to do is holder to that.