I think it is totally a commitment issue. People have had bad previous marriages and are not going to do it again...or they are just scared. for me personally, I want a commitment. If you are too scared to give me that, then you aren't for me.
I completely understand why, in gilda's and shani's situations, but for all of you who are legally able to get married...why are u just going to live together and have no legal commitment?
I don't feel that it takes 5 years of engagement and living together to figure out if you are going to work. If it takes that long to figure it out..it's not meant to be...you shouldn't have to convince yourself that you love or someone or can deal with thier shit.
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