In a way, I'd almost prefer to not get legally married. I think I'd rather have the knowledge that if we don't work out whatever differences or problems we are experiencing, she can walk out. If it's that easy, we'd damn well better work our ass off, not because of how much trouble a divorce is, but because we'd rather be together. I want my commitment to come totally from inside and not be tied to anything outside of me, except the other person.
It'd be more like ShaniFaye's arrangement I guess; moving in together becomes the marriage vows in a way.
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