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All I have to say is, You never know what will happen. A very similar situation happenend to me. A girl had been going out with an asshole boyfriend for 4 1/2 years. She knew he was a dick, they would get in lots of fights, all of her friends hated him, she was just attached to him. Like your girl, he had been there when her father died, etc..
Through a mutual friend we were introduced. Right away, it was like we both were smacked stupid with a brick. I knew I totally dug this girl, neither one of us did anything that first time we met, but she shit-canned her boyfriend the very next day. I didn't know she had a boyfriend that she dumped until after a few real dates. Anyway, we took it slow, both played it cool, even though I knew I was head-over-heels with this girl, and she felt the same about me (but I didn't know it yet). Eventually we both opened up to each other about our love for one another, and 2 1/2 years later we are engaged couldn't be more in love with each other.
So all I am saying is, you never know.
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