this was actually a sticking point for me after a bad living together experiance..I would never live with somone before marriage again.
For ME, and I know this isn't for everyone, but it was the same for my husband..there is something differant about being married. You can't just walk away anymore, and that changes everything. If you are messy and he is not..all those little things you have to comprimise on.
And I also am not comfortable with depending on someone so much finacially..and they can walk away with no repurcussions.
But, this is coming from someone who lost everything when my fiance left me...I chose never to give anyone but my HUSBAND that kind of dependance.
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How you turned my world, you precious thing
You starve and near exhaust me
Everything I've done, I've done for you
I move the stars for no one
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