I just read that thread and I think I know what C172g is saying. If you are only dating and living with someone, you don't have to work through things if you don't want to.
Perhaps the little things such as not picking up things around the house would lead to irritation and instead of working through it, which you need to do in a marriage, you can just break it off with the person and move on. But, since they were married, he put an effort into working through their differences because its not as easy to get a divorce as it is to break up with someone.
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