Attempting to avoid thread-jacking a Sexuality forum thread by starting this one...
I used to think living together beforehand was a bad idea, but now I've started to change my views a bit and wonder if it isn't such a bad thing, after all.
c172g's following comment surprised me though (from the other Forum), since everything has been great in his marriage but they might not have gotten married in the first place if they'd lived together first and seen how different they were (in his case, her being messy and him being neat).
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Originally Posted by c172g
Had we lived together I probably would have lost it at some point. I'm glad I didn't...
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c172g, what made the difference between losing it if you'd lived together before marriage, as opposed to keeping sane while living together
after marriage?
And for the rest, how many of you happily-marrieds (or happily-divorced!) think living together before marriage was good, bad, or irrelevant for your decision to get married?