The one thing that really gets me going is when she asks for something and then very audibly responds when I do exactly what she wants. It was so much more gratifying the other night when she decided she wanted to try anal for the first time, and brought it up out of the blue. Its weird, because I'm very submissive to her requests, but end up being the one with the power to fullfill the request or not.
One of my main hobbys is writing, and she just loves it when we are getting into it and she asks me to tell her exactly what I'm doing to her. Which takes on a very erotica-type tone but becomes very dirty the further into it we go. Major turn on for her (though not so much for me as, while I enjoy her doing the same, I all too often find myself rewriting her words subconsiously which distracts me a little)...
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