I don't think you should buy in to this whole friend zone thing. I was good friends with my girlfriend for about 6 years before we ever had a romantic relationship. We've been together for about 18 months now and it's great. Besides you're already having sex with this chick so it's obvious that she's interested in you right? I'd say that if you feel like you could handle watching her and being a supportive friend (perhaps even with benefits) while she tries to figure out what she wants then go for it. It could take a very long time though so you may want to be wary of that. I'm not really sure why younger girls are so attracted to the controlling asshole type, but most women seem to come around at some point in their life. I guess the bottom line would be is she worth the time, effort, and possible anguish? Good Luck.
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