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Jesus Christ man, I probably don't need advise because I know what I should do, but this is just so fucking frustrating.

I've been with my girlfriend for about 2 years, and nothing is the same anymore. I'm sure I've changed over the course of the relationship, but what I'm noticing most is how she's changed. We started out as a long distance relationship, she was in college and I lived hours away. We would talk everyday, we would make immense amounts of effort to see each other almost every weekend. She was so nice to me, she'd alway answer my calls or call back quickly, she was enamored with me, made me feel like a million bucks.

Now we've been living in the same city for about a year and things are so much different. We argue all the time over stupid shit. She doesn't wait for my calls, in fact most the time she doesn't even answer them. That frustrates the hell out of me. She used to want sex all the time, now I'm lucky if she wants it more than once or twice a week. This relationship has degraded into a depreciating experience for me.

It's time to get out of this relationship, it's been time for so long, but when it comes to it I just can't bring myself to end it. I'm probably moving soon, so maybe I should just let that end the relationship for me, tell her I can't do the long distance relationship anymore. I don't know if the pain of getting out of this relationship will be worse than the pain of staying in it any longer.