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Old 03-25-2005, 03:03 PM   #21 (permalink)
cyrnel
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Abso-freaking-lutely. Mostly with family and close friends.

Holiday visits wouldn't be the same without gaggles of nieces & nephews attacking with outstretched arms. With non-family, it usually only begins after we've shared some significant experience.

On rare occasions I'll hug someone I hardly know but it's a supportive or sympathetic gesture. If they're going through shit I'll gladly offer a hug. If it isn't their thing then that's fine too.

I can understand being uncomfortable in groups that promote "show hugs."

Also, I'll be the first to admit guy hugs are less frequent, usually one-armed, and more of the quick pat-on-the-back variety. For some this indicates an underlying character flaw but it works for us.
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