Sex is important to a relationship, but what is even more important is the relationship itself (how you two relate to each other and understand each other). I highly commend you on your choice to not have sex till you know them better. I always lived through how fast I could get laid early in my college career till I met a Catholic virgin who said there was going to be none of that till marriage. I had to work through all of our relationship issues without having sexual urges cloud my vision. That was almost 15 years ago now (14 years married), and I'm utterly happy. At least the no-sex thing gives you a great way to know whether you are truly compatible in your personalities.
Oh....and drop kick that girl to the side of the road. As soon as you said psychic, I knew that she wasn't a good long-term thing for you.
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