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Originally Posted by nwlinkvxd
However, my mom and sister are both materialistic, hyperconservative, hypocritical bitches who waste as much money as they can, refuse to do any manual labor (such as picking up after their animals), they bitch about how they always have to work sooooooo hard, but whenever I'm with them, they lay around on the couch while I'm ordered to do all this work in a house I've only spent a handful of nights in.
My mom and sister have both developed extremely hateful stances toward LPM, and even more so to our relationship. And the exasperating fact about it, is that we have never done anything to wrong them. LPM is a total sweetheart. She is always kind, polite, and very outgoing around my family, and still they're total assholes to her..
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I would like to make a comment if i may, i also think LPM is a lovely person, the sheer reason they may take issue with her and your relationship with her is because they both are super JEALOUS that you seem to have found such pure happiness. There are those people out there who are so miserble themselves, that they cannot stand to see someone else be happy or in love. It's only a testiment to what a great girl you've got in LPM that she can be kind to them even though they are treating her in such a way.
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Originally Posted by nwlinkvxd
I literally had my mother SCOFF at my major and line of work (computer programming) this past weekend, and I said to her face that it was childish, and that it chapped my ass that she couldn't just be happy for me for ONCE in my life...
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This sounds really similar to my husband's situation when he was younger, all his family brought into his life was drama and pain, he's pretty much cut them out of his life and has been alot happier since he did that 4 years ago. He's moved on from all that pain they brought him and we've created a happy, stable life together with only love and kindess in it, because MY family adores him!
Even though these people are your family, if they aren't bringing anything positive to your life or your fiancee's life, don't think twice about getting some real space from them for an extended period of time, sometimes it's healthy to distance yourself from such situations.
We don't get to pick our familes, sometimes we just get stuck with them and it's so difficult.
Sweetpea