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Wax_off · 03-20-2005, 08:42 PM

This is important, so I'm going to yell.

GO SEE A DOCTOR. SPECIFCALLY THIS ONE. He's in San Fransisco, I think I remember something about you being in the bay area?

<a href='http://www.jmweissmd.com/index.html'>http://www.jmweissmd.com/index.html</a>

Most ob/gyns know NOTHING about pain during sex. IT IS REAL, IT CAN BE TREATED, IF LEFT ALONE IT WILL DESTROY YOUR RELATIONSHIP.

I know this. My ex girlfriend had the same problem, and despite going to counseling, our relationship, although good in almost every other way could not survive. I cannot tell you how damaging it was for both of us.

For reference of others, the problem that LPM is having will not be solved by more lube, changing birth control (although that may help the libido problems) or therapy. It is a real physical problem that isn't as rare as you might think.

CHECK THIS LINK TOO.

http://www.sexwithoutpain.com/

Also, get <a href="http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/tg/detail/-/0970029810/ref=pd_null_recs_b_i/104-9360348-5474359?v=glance&s=books"> THIS </a> book...

PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE feel free to PM me. I know a LOT about this subject, having to deal with it for two years (albeit from the male point of view) and knowing personally how hard it is. I know how it must make you feel, the sense of sexual inadequacy. It was awful for my ex and unbelievably frustrating for me.

03-20-2005, 08:42 PM	#128 (permalink)
Wax_off No Avatar, No Sig.	This is important, so I'm going to yell. GO SEE A DOCTOR. SPECIFCALLY THIS ONE. He's in San Fransisco, I think I remember something about you being in the bay area? <a href='http://www.jmweissmd.com/index.html'>http://www.jmweissmd.com/index.html</a> Most ob/gyns know NOTHING about pain during sex. IT IS REAL, IT CAN BE TREATED, IF LEFT ALONE IT WILL DESTROY YOUR RELATIONSHIP. I know this. My ex girlfriend had the same problem, and despite going to counseling, our relationship, although good in almost every other way could not survive. I cannot tell you how damaging it was for both of us. For reference of others, the problem that LPM is having will not be solved by more lube, changing birth control (although that may help the libido problems) or therapy. It is a real physical problem that isn't as rare as you might think. CHECK THIS LINK TOO. http://www.sexwithoutpain.com/ Also, get <a href="http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/tg/detail/-/0970029810/ref=pd_null_recs_b_i/104-9360348-5474359?v=glance&s=books"> THIS </a> book... PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE feel free to PM me. I know a LOT about this subject, having to deal with it for two years (albeit from the male point of view) and knowing personally how hard it is. I know how it must make you feel, the sense of sexual inadequacy. It was awful for my ex and unbelievably frustrating for me.