Wow, lots of angry people here...
It's too bad, someone comes here, and is honest and asks for help, and all we can give them is a nose in the air and a 'YOU NEED TO BREAK UP RIGHT NOW!" rather than some honest caring advice? Cmon guys, we're family here! Some of the people that posted have been nice about it, and if you've read the whole thread, you'll see that LPM and Link are actually talking rationally and taking advice and trying to fix their problems. All that some of you are doing with posting the mean comments are hurting the situation even more. Don't you think LPM and Link feel bad enough about the situation already that they would bring it here? Give them the benefit of the doubt, that they do love each other and do belong together.
I like sex as much as the next guy, and have a feeling I want it just as often as Link does, but that doesn't define me as a person. Sex is not all that a loving caring relationship is about. Relationships are about compromise and working together to find a happy middle ground, which is what it looks like is going on here now.
Now, on to the lovebirds!
Good job on making the doctors apointments, and seeing a head-shrinker. I do think couple's counseling might help, and you can usually get it for free if you aren't horribly opposed to talking to someone from a church.
I would talk to your doctor about slowly backing off the medication you are taking, and maybe switching birth-control methods. Also LPM, fix your diet! If you aren't eating right, I'm not surprised your body would be acting a little funny! Link, make her do it! You guys are planning on spending the rest of your lives together, you need to start watching out for each other now!
As for the sex thing, work together until you get everything straightened out! If sex isn't enjoyable for you, and you can't bear to think of him jerking off by himself, get involved! You don't have to have him pentrate you to be involved! It's called titty-fucking!
Or at least be there, touching him, talking to him and touching yourself!
Now that I've thoroughly emberassed myself and everyone else, I'll bid ya adieu! Love you guys! Hope everything works out!
